By Stephanie Kaltenbach Being chubby or 'large' is not so easy now a days because the press, media or in other words society wants you to be skinny. Guys see what is fashionable and skinny, anorexic, little itty bitty things with no waist or curves to speak of are attracting in my school now a days. If you can't find a date for Friday or your always being stuck with "your my friend, just my friend".... do not worry I have been there , am there and maybe always will have difficulty getting a guy because I am a 'chubster'. It is not so bad since most teenage guys are going threw puberty and just want to figure out the physical part of a relationship not the intimate part. I am mostly talking to middle school and maybe even early high school. We are not done growing you could lose that fat without puking up the dinner your mother cooked for you or not eating until you can see where your rib starts and where it ends. The thing is I am not that big most of you 'chubby' girls aren't either. I have learned to appreciate my body for being what it is. I know, your probably thinking how could that be! It's almost inhuman to dislike your body. I am comfortable with it, I will not make excuses to why I wear a size 12 pants which by the way is huge to most the girls in my school. I used to be awkward and avoided most of the good looking guys. But then one day I woke up and said who gives a f***? I slowly built up my self esteem, becoming more self assured and in the end I started to socialize. Now some guys will see your weight but most in the end will look past that. Or just acting normal like you love your self and use that I-don't-give-a-damn attitude towards what people think of you, guys naturally gravitate towards that. I have a friend Britney she is an 'extra large' girl but she has everything I just spoke about and she gets a lot of boyfriends. I would hate to see your teenage years waisted on stupid thoughts about how your could be better, instead of how you are better. My name is Stephanie Liegh Kaltenbach, I am in my first year of high school. I grew up in Georgia and me and my family didn't have much money. Then when I was eight we moved up to Oshkosh, WI. I'm living with my parents and my huge Saint Bernard dog Moose now. I have a good life as a 'chubby' girl and a nice boyfriend Danni. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Stephanie_Kaltenbach http://EzineArticles.com/?Teen-Dating&id=525447 order generic xanax online with no prescription
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